Serious Discussion: Cougar Women

Glexn · 10-17-2008, 04:26 AM

I've been thinking of joining a Cougar Women dating site to make contact with affable, powerful women proud to be over 40. I'm very indecisive, and I need some guidance. Should I?

Injektilo · 10-17-2008, 06:56 AM

why not?

MolBaNdA · 10-17-2008, 07:44 AM

I love older women! As long as their hot.

spike_gta · 10-17-2008, 08:38 AM

Until my current gf I never dated/hooked up with a girl younger than me. Biggest age different being with her being 5 years older (big different when you're 17).

So I say go for it! You don't have anything to loose

kirkyl · 10-17-2008, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by MolBaNdA

I love older women! As long as their hot.

Yup older women rock,oldest woman i copped off with was 41 (i'm 23) and she was insane,go for it.

Glexn · 10-17-2008, 09:28 AM

My oldest was 26 when I was 19, so far.

I only discovered the phenomenon of Cougar Women the other day, and I thought it was pretty interesting. Most women my own age around here I meet, it's hard to suffer through conversation with them. I think it'd be a really interesting relationship, with an older person. A strong, experienced powerful woman vs. the natural dominant attitude most men have would be an interesting match to see. I think the (hopefully) constant power struggle would provide some spice. The girls I've been with so far, they are either put into submission too easily, or just annoyingly pigheaded. They always stop fighting after a couple of weeks anyway, and that just makes them tiring.

Who do you reckon would end up wearing the pants? And who's your oldest 'conquest'? As I said, mine it seven years.

nVidiot_Whore · 10-17-2008, 01:31 PM

I slept with a woman who was probably 55 years old or so a few years ago.

She was HAWT

Psycho Xeno · 10-17-2008, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by spike_gta

Biggest age different being with her being 5 years older...

Somehow, I read that as 5 years old.

Glexn · 10-17-2008, 09:40 PM

Ha, I made a profile on an internet dating site... I'm such a sad lonely man.

Want to see? It's pretty awesome.

Miss Lucifer · 10-18-2008, 09:06 AM

This thread reminds me of one of the most fucked up films ever.

CAT PEOPLE.

Chris · 10-18-2008, 10:40 AM

Annette O'Toole <3

Glexn · 10-18-2008, 10:45 AM

What kind of movie is it?

Lawbringer122 · 10-18-2008, 11:07 AM

This reminds me of my buddy and his wife who has one of those Kutcher/Moore relationships. He's 22 and she's 42. Be prepared for some comments by other people and if you go out and your gf is fairly attractive and you leave her alone older guys will hit on her and think you as their signifigant other was a joke. Just dont go trying getting into fights over it.

Miss Lucifer · 10-18-2008, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Semirhage

What kind of movie is it?

2 hours of sheer fuckedupness. Has to be seen to be believed.

Cat People (1982)

Glexn · 10-18-2008, 11:49 AM

Bittorrented. Will watch shortly.
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Originally Posted by Lawbringer122

This reminds me of my buddy and his wife who has one of those Kutcher/Moore relationships. He's 22 and she's 42. Be prepared for some comments by other people and if you go out and your gf is fairly attractive and you leave her alone older guys will hit on her and think you as their signifigant other was a joke. Just dont go trying getting into fights over it.

I find other people people mostly comedic when they get emotionally high, so that'a not a stress, and I can't go anywhere without being almost perpetually abused by one demographic or another, so it's like water off of a ducks... beak. If that is the most I have to deal with, then this idealic relationship should be a cinche.
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Originally Posted by Miss Lucifer

2 hours of sheer fuckedupness. Has to be seen to be believed.

Cat People (1982)

Ha, "By his own admission, director Paul Schrader says that one day he got so stoned on set that he refused to come out of his trailer. A whole day's filming was lost."

aLiteSneeze · 10-20-2008, 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Semirhage

Who do you reckon would end up wearing the pants? And who's your oldest 'conquest'? As I said, mine it seven years.

I don't really think that age has much to do with who "wears the pants". That's just me, though, every relationship is influenced by different factors. My relationship is probably classified as skirt-skirt, as my partner and I are constantly "it's up to you", "no, you decide, I decided last time!", etc. I win a lot of arguments between us because I'm good at expressing myself, and reasoning, and arguing passionately, and probably have a little bit more empathy. But he's kinder than me, so I probably don't deserve the victories.

On the actual subject of age, I always thought I'd end up with someone older than me. I was wrong. I'm older by 17 days. If I were much older than that, it'd be a problem. I don't compromise much with lower numbers. Higher numbers, however.

No, I've never really "conquered" anyone, so I'm not going to answer that question. (Sometimes my friends poke fun at me. I guess I deserve it.)

Renegade 2501 · 10-20-2008, 03:30 AM

Got a 21 year old girl when I was 18. Hardly a cougar, but still.

As long as she's not like that old woman in Brazil, go ahead.

MolBaNdA · 10-20-2008, 11:54 AM

Is that the one who's husband was young enough to be her grandson? Then kicked the bucket like two days later?

kirkyl · 10-20-2008, 02:30 PM

Ok whats the oldest you guys would go for in terms of age in a woman? (and for you ladies,men)for me it would be 45 however if i bump into a real milf/Cougar goddess that looks like Liz hurley i'll happily bump it up to 50.

No joke.

nVidiot_Whore · 10-20-2008, 02:45 PM

I have a scandalous picture somewhere of the 55+ year old I slept with several times a few years back. I'll try to dig it up and spoiler tag it or something.. I think I have a couple actually that aren't nude.

MolBaNdA · 10-20-2008, 03:25 PM

As long as they look good no age limit. That being said it would probably be a limit of 50-55 considering older than that there aren't many people that still look good haha.

Glexn · 10-20-2008, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by kirkyl

Ok whats the oldest you guys would go for in terms of age in a woman? (and for you ladies,men)for me it would be 45 however if i bump into a real milf/Cougar goddess that looks like Liz hurley i'll happily bump it up to 50.

No joke.

No upper age limit for me, as long as I like them.

Salvage Guy · 10-20-2008, 05:54 PM

I'm sure the Queen gives to charity and windmills in her bedroom to Nickelback.

Hmmm. maybe not eh?

aLiteSneeze · 10-20-2008, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by kirkyl

Ok whats the oldest you guys would go for in terms of age in a woman? (and for you ladies,men)

I'm not very shallow, but I'll be honest on this one. It depends on a few things, but one of those is how old they look. I have a friend who is only a couple of years older than me, and he looks ancient. Still nice looking, but old. I have another friend in their 30s who looks way younger. I'm like a child. I need someone else childlike (not childish).

It also depends on the person. I also once said I'd NEVER be with anyone younger than me, no matter what, and yet; 17 days! Exceptions can always be made. Age is just an administrative number anyway.

MolBaNdA · 10-20-2008, 10:30 PM

True that, true that. My cousin is always complaining about how she doesn't have a boyfriend and there's this kid she went to school with who likes her a lot, but is a year younger than her but she won't date him because he's younger. I hate it when people but up such a big fuss over age. At least when it's not a big difference like that. I can understand an older woman not wanting a younger man when it's like 5 or more years. But a year like that, stupid.

Lawbringer122 · 10-20-2008, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Semirhage

No upper age limit for me, as long as I like them.

Im sure she's a very nice lady.

Glexn · 10-21-2008, 01:58 AM

Age limit. =]

Besides, she's probably only 23.

aLiteSneeze · 10-21-2008, 06:06 AM

Hey that's me!

Glexn · 10-21-2008, 07:04 AM

So that's what you look like without makeup on.

kirkyl · 10-21-2008, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by aLiteSneeze

Age is just an administrative number anyway.

Of course,its always been one of my iron clad rules when it comes to dating that age is nothing but a number however i've had much better luck dating members of the opposit sex who are older than me rather than being younger.Doesn't bother me much as older is my preference but isn't by no means a requirement when i'm looking for a date etc.

10-17-2008, 04:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
Glexn The cop inside all our heads must be destroyed. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne Posts: 5,616	Serious Discussion: Cougar Women I've been thinking of joining a Cougar Women dating site to make contact with affable, powerful women proud to be over 40. I'm very indecisive, and I need some guidance. Should I?

10-17-2008, 08:38 AM	#4 (permalink)
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10-17-2008, 01:31 PM	#7 (permalink)
nVidiot_Whore Labia Majora Hardcore Veteran Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Left of you. Posts: 6,319	I slept with a woman who was probably 55 years old or so a few years ago. She was HAWT
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Injektilo bleep freak Godlike Poster Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: northampton, UK Posts: 22,157	why not?

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MolBaNdA LL Cool G Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Right behind you and getting closer... Posts: 3,839	I love older women! As long as their hot.

10-17-2008, 09:28 AM	#6 (permalink)
Glexn The cop inside all our heads must be destroyed. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne Posts: 5,616	My oldest was 26 when I was 19, so far. I only discovered the phenomenon of Cougar Women the other day, and I thought it was pretty interesting. Most women my own age around here I meet, it's hard to suffer through conversation with them. I think it'd be a really interesting relationship, with an older person. A strong, experienced powerful woman vs. the natural dominant attitude most men have would be an interesting match to see. I think the (hopefully) constant power struggle would provide some spice. The girls I've been with so far, they are either put into submission too easily, or just annoyingly pigheaded. They always stop fighting after a couple of weeks anyway, and that just makes them tiring. Who do you reckon would end up wearing the pants? And who's your oldest 'conquest'? As I said, mine it seven years.

10-17-2008, 09:40 PM	#9 (permalink)
Glexn The cop inside all our heads must be destroyed. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne Posts: 5,616	Ha, I made a profile on an internet dating site... I'm such a sad lonely man. Want to see? It's pretty awesome.

10-18-2008, 09:06 AM	#10 (permalink)
Miss Lucifer Silencio Forum Officer Hardcore Veteran Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Adelaide, Australia Posts: 6,186	This thread reminds me of one of the most fucked up films ever. CAT PEOPLE.

10-18-2008, 10:40 AM	#11 (permalink)
Chris Porkus Maximus. Nevar4get. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Essex, England Posts: 6,618	Annette O'Toole <3

10-18-2008, 10:45 AM	#12 (permalink)
Glexn The cop inside all our heads must be destroyed. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne Posts: 5,616	What kind of movie is it?

10-18-2008, 11:07 AM	#13 (permalink)
Lawbringer122 Registered User Hardcore Veteran Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: North Carolina Posts: 5,370	This reminds me of my buddy and his wife who has one of those Kutcher/Moore relationships. He's 22 and she's 42. Be prepared for some comments by other people and if you go out and your gf is fairly attractive and you leave her alone older guys will hit on her and think you as their signifigant other was a joke. Just dont go trying getting into fights over it.

10-20-2008, 03:30 AM	#17 (permalink)
Renegade 2501 Caveat Emptor Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2001 Location: "Kahlifoania" Posts: 9,330	Got a 21 year old girl when I was 18. Hardly a cougar, but still. As long as she's not like that old woman in Brazil, go ahead.

10-20-2008, 11:54 AM	#18 (permalink)
MolBaNdA LL Cool G Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Right behind you and getting closer... Posts: 3,839	Is that the one who's husband was young enough to be her grandson? Then kicked the bucket like two days later?

10-20-2008, 02:30 PM	#19 (permalink)
kirkyl Hesitate and you will be lost! Hardcore Veteran Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Manchester, England Posts: 5,742	Ok whats the oldest you guys would go for in terms of age in a woman? (and for you ladies,men)for me it would be 45 however if i bump into a real milf/Cougar goddess that looks like Liz hurley i'll happily bump it up to 50. No joke.

10-20-2008, 02:45 PM	#20 (permalink)
nVidiot_Whore Labia Majora Hardcore Veteran Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Left of you. Posts: 6,319	I have a scandalous picture somewhere of the 55+ year old I slept with several times a few years back. I'll try to dig it up and spoiler tag it or something.. I think I have a couple actually that aren't nude.

10-20-2008, 03:25 PM	#21 (permalink)
MolBaNdA LL Cool G Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Right behind you and getting closer... Posts: 3,839	As long as they look good no age limit. That being said it would probably be a limit of 50-55 considering older than that there aren't many people that still look good haha.

10-20-2008, 05:54 PM	#23 (permalink)
Salvage Guy Forum Officer Forum Officer Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2002 Location: Edinburgh, UK Posts: 8,454	I'm sure the Queen gives to charity and windmills in her bedroom to Nickelback. Hmmm. maybe not eh?

10-20-2008, 10:30 PM	#25 (permalink)
MolBaNdA LL Cool G Grizzled Veteran Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Right behind you and getting closer... Posts: 3,839	True that, true that. My cousin is always complaining about how she doesn't have a boyfriend and there's this kid she went to school with who likes her a lot, but is a year younger than her but she won't date him because he's younger. I hate it when people but up such a big fuss over age. At least when it's not a big difference like that. I can understand an older woman not wanting a younger man when it's like 5 or more years. But a year like that, stupid.

10-21-2008, 01:58 AM	#27 (permalink)
Glexn The cop inside all our heads must be destroyed. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne Posts: 5,616	Age limit. =] Besides, she's probably only 23.

10-21-2008, 06:06 AM	#28 (permalink)
aLiteSneeze Scatterbrain Veteran Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 999	Hey that's me!

10-21-2008, 07:04 AM	#29 (permalink)
Glexn The cop inside all our heads must be destroyed. Hardcore Veteran Join Date: May 2003 Location: Melbourne Posts: 5,616	So that's what you look like without makeup on.